Have you ever witnessed someone react with fury to injustice on live TV, forever changing history? In 2012, Australia’s first female Prime Minister, Julia Gillard, reached her breaking point. Her actions in that moment didn’t just silence the room; they ignited a global movement against sexism.
Hey beautiful people, I’m Botimi. I’m a Nigerian-Australian researcher, passionate about women’s empowerment and social justice. Today, I want you to lean in. Gillard’s legendary misogyny speech wasn’t just about politics; it was about every woman who has ever been told you’re not enough.
The Weight We Carry as Women
Let’s be real. Too many of us are still battling outdated expectations. You know those awkward family gatherings where aunties ask, “When are you getting married?” Or the whispers that you’re somehow incomplete without a man by your side.Here’s the truth: your worth isn’t measured by a ring or a relationship status. You are whole. You are powerful. You are enough, today, right now, just as you are. This isn’t just pep talk. It’s a demand to break free from chains that have held women back for centuries.
Julia Gillard
Now, picture this: you’re the first woman to lead your country. Instead of debating your policies, the media obsesses over your clothes, your partner, and the fact you don’t have children.
That was Gillard’s reality. Protesters waved signs: “Ditch the Witch.” Tony Abbott, opposition leader at the time, sneered about making her an “honest woman.” And yet, he had the audacity to accuse her of sexism.
For me, watching as a Nigerian woman, it was gut-wrenching. The same sexism I’ve faced in boardrooms was playing out against the most powerful woman in Australia. And in my mother’s Nigeria? Her only “crime” was giving birth to daughters.
“Not Now. Not Ever.”
That day, Gillard stood up. Her voice didn’t shake. Her eyes didn’t blink. She declared:
“I will not be lectured about sexism and misogyny by this man. Not now, not ever.”
Mic drop
As a Black woman, her words hit home. Because if a white woman at the height of political power was dragged through this mud, imagine the double load women of colour carry—gender bias and racial prejudice.
Every time our ideas are dismissed. Every time we’re the only Black woman in the room. Every time our leadership is questioned before we even open our mouths.
Gillard’s speech became more than a clapback. It became a battle cry. “Not Now, Not Ever” trended worldwide, uniting women across continents.
Why It Still Matters Today
Fast forward. Has sexism disappeared? No.
In Nigeria, with over 100 million women, where are our female governors? Why no female president? Why are boardrooms still run like old boys’ clubs?
And globally, the story repeats itself: women dismissed, silenced, and scrutinized for everything except their ideas.
But here’s the power: we’re stronger together.
Join the Movement
Drop your story in the comments. Have you ever faced discrimination at work, school, or in your community? Use the hashtags #NotNowNotEver and #WomenInPower to join the global conversation.
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Change doesn’t start tomorrow; it starts today, with us, with our voices, and by refusing to be silent.
Because as Gillard showed us, sometimes all it takes is one woman saying “enough.”


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